I was at a bar last night to see a band play – and their music is great – they’re E. Joseph and the Phantom Heart.

But , funny thing…..I dont like the crowds much anymore in settings like a bar.

The Girls are wearing tops that flash a lot of their cleavage and when guys start staring they do the “i’m uncomfortable with you staring at my breasts thing and pull their top up – adding more comedy to the episode.

I’ve learned – or re-learned – where the term a**hat comes from….this guy near me was wearing a baseball hat – turned a little to the side and was doing this weird sense of humor with the girls in his posse – making attempts to either ‘put the moves’ on them or just esablish himself as the comic king of Baltimore.

He wasn’t trying to impress me or make me laugh…..but…..i’m wondering if this is the way it is for “the 40 year old guy.”

The music by the band is very good – and you should check them out when you get a free moment.  www.myspace.com/ejosephmusic